
Really Though
Exercises and perspectives on healing, personal development, and self-care.
Political Anxiety
When emotionally activated by a political situation, your trauma work is calling you.
Rethinking Resolutions
Resolutions don’t usually work, but there is a recipe for change that works every time.
Boundaries and the Holidays
The choice seems to be: have your boundary or spend time with your family. But there are in-between options.
What Does “Close to Myself” Mean?
What does it mean to be "close to oneself," and why bother?
Healing: Your Inner Garden
A healing journey is a lot like cleaning up an overgrown garden.
Why Feel Your Feelings?
Feeling painful feelings, by definition, does not feel good, but can lead to new freedom.
Attachment Trauma Wants What it Wants
Heart leading you to unhealthy places? Wrong, it’s attachment trauma.
You (Yes, You) Need Trauma Work
Most adults can benefit from trauma work, not because your life was so bad, but because when you were young, your nervous system couldn’t handle intensity and feelings got locked away — until now.
Anxiety - Bees in the Brain
Anxiety is like a swarm of buzzing bees in your head — monitoring, planning, and working. It is possible to calm the noise and settle the bees.
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